What do we want life to look like?
What we need to focus on, instead, is what we want. What do we want to accomplish, do, have and see? What do we want life to look like?
When you switch from a negative to a positive perspective, you can begin to take steps toward what you want instead of avoiding what you don't want. Ideas begin to pop up. Opportunity knocks.
It may seem like a small thing, but it's been shown to be quite important in the area of achievement and personal growth.
You are the author
If you look at life as an unfolding story - and you are the author - you can begin to put activities and characters in place to tell the story the way you want to see it played out.
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