Chicago Mayor Rahm Emanuel famously said during his time as White House Chief of Staff, "You never want a serious crisis go to waste." He went on to say that a crisis gives you "an opportunity to do things that you could not do before."
We can apply that to life in general, especially when it comes to failure. None of us wants to fail, and yet it's often the pathway to future success. It presents opportunities to do things and see things that otherwise would not have been possible. Failure is even better if you can incorporate the following three elements:
You've been doing the same things in the same way for a long time. One day tends to blend into the next. Routines are well established. Life is predictable.
That likely describes all of us at one time or another. But, as we know all too well, routines can become ruts. Before we know it, we're stuck.
The problem is complacency.
It is time to shake things up?
I was talking to my wife about her job, and she mentioned she was considering making some changes. She wasn't sure of all of the pros and cons of the changes, but she was giving it some thought. Then she said something that really caught my attention: "I think I'm in a rut and want to shake things up."
I got to thinking, we can fall into ruts all too easily. Someone once said a rut is nothing but a grave with both ends kicked out.
Ruts lead to all kinds of problems. We lose strength and speed, ideas, momentum, motivation, initiative. Before we know it, we're not just coasting, we're declining.
"If I've got a swing, I've got a shot." That's Bubba Watson's philosophy on the golf course and something we can all apply to business and life. Watch this interview for more insights.
We're often persuaded to accept the "truth" of an argument based on the credibility of a speaker or the organization he or she represents. We tend to believe or disbelieve politicians on this basis.
Yet, just because someone says it doesn't make it true.
Just because we want to believe it doesn't make it true.
Just because someone is sincere doesn't make it true.
Here are the most viewed Open Mic blog posts during the month of March. Not all of these were written during March. If you haven't yet read them, please do, and then
let me know what you think.
The Power of DeadlinesThe Power of the Boomerang EffectWhat's True for You That's Stopping YouObjective over ObstacleLeadership is EncouragementFollow me on
Twitter, and sign up for our
free newsletter.
People buy what you're selling and what you're saying when they trust you. They can only trust you if they believe you are worthy of that trust. That's the essence of credibility.
Credibility comes from the same root as "credo" which means I believe. If you're credible, people can believe in you.
Can you boost your credibility? Is it possible to become more credibile with friends, coworkers and customers over time? Yes, but you have to work at it. You have to earn it. Here are 5 essential qualities we all need.